Salvation is not a legitimate argument for indoctrinating children

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For centuries parents have been persuaded to consign their children to their personal faith because they believed the marketing pitch that raising their children in their faith was necessary. Leaving aside the purported benefits of moral training, the goal was to provide a guaranteed shot at heaven. Prior to Ignatius Loyola there didn’t seem to be any concentrated effort to groom children. Perhaps they were just assumed to follow their parents into heaven because in the middle ages children were actually considered to be part of their parents. Supposedly the path to hell was likewise the kids destiny depending on where the parents wound up. That would be interesting to research. Questions like this are what makes dogma so absurd and full of contradictions and inconsistencies.

Opinion makers working for marketers serving religious institutions, long ago learned that families with children make the best financial supporters. They are more apt to be faithful in their attendance and generous with their wallets. After all, what parent is going to be a cheapskate when the goal is eternal salvation of their children? They must think of it as an investment.

If this sounds cynical, it is because it is cynical, but the cynicism is on the part of the institutions who manipulate parents. Promises of eternal life are without any kind of substantiation. No one knows what happens when you die and anyone who says they know is either deluded or a liar. Don’t let them near your money.

Mormons carry this family togetherness thing to ridiculous lengths going so far as posthumous baptism. They hold “sealing” ceremonies for dead family members they have never met or known. Such family members are simply an entry in a genealogy record and many had extremely brief lives in the old days. Nonetheless, they get a shot at heaven they might otherwise not have had.

When challenged over the act of grooming their children, the Christians seem to believe they have an ironclad argument. To wit: I am simply insuring my child is eligible for salvation and we intend to keep the family intact after death. If the children were not raised in the faith of their parents who knows how they might end up in heaven or if they would even be saved. Suppose the child wants to be a Buddhist? How do you explain that to the grandparents?

On the surface all this concern with salvation sounds noble enough, but on closer inspection, the argument fails because the parents are using religious dogma about salvation to support a temporal scheme that has temporal ramifications. In our law you cannot justify harmful personal actions based on theology, no matter the motive. If you stop and think about this the reason why becomes abundantly clear. The most serious temporal ramification can be a lifetime of mental stress and anxiety that is directly the result of the fear mongering and guilt heaped on children. Christine O’Donnell and her amusing, but sad concepts about masturbation is a bizarre manifestation of sexual ignorance combined with guilt resulting from her Christian upbringing.

Suppose parents have a child that is gravely ill with an incurable illness. They are heartbroken that the child is going to die so they decide to put them out of their misery and hide the body. The fact they attempt to cover up the crime is an admission they know what they did was a crime. Yet when the crime is discovered and they are hauled into court they defend themselves claiming they wanted to send the child to a better place, heaven. Many of their co-religionists might agree they acted humanely and in the child’s best interests. Does the court agree?

No, most assuredly not. The parents may get a lenient sentence, but they will do some time. Their defense fails because religious dogma has no place in a court of law. Likewise, consigning non consenting immature children to a program of religious child grooming that has risks to their mental health should fail for the same reason a mercy killing fails. Temporal acts have temporal consequences and that is all the law is permitted to evaluate.

An adult can examine all the prospects and responsibilities of becoming this or that religious follower. If fully informed and of sound mind they are free to embark on a supernatural quest for eternal life if that is their desire. Because, when you boil it all down, the advantages of fellowship and the opportunity to do charitable works are worthy, albeit side benefits of being a Christian. The ultimate goal is to cheat death. Lacking the salvation feature it is hard to see Christianity surviving in the modern age.

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Posted on Saturday, January 1st, 2011 at 11:26 pm in Childhood Indoctrination, Children's rights.

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What is sad is when atheists bring their children to church/temple/mosque in order for the kids to get "educated" about faith. I wouldn't send a my kids to a liar to learn about lying!

Although visiting a church/mosque/synagogue can be helpful in teaching children about religion parents must take care. Depending on the institution they could be exposed to thousands of people acting in strange emotional ways. This is not recommended for very young children who are not fully grounded in reality as it is. Older children are not as much at risk, but the visit should be thoughtfully carried out, with a post-visit conversation to respond to the child’s inevitable questions. Children must learn about religion because it is so much a cultural phenomenon they would not understand the world around them if they knew nothing at all about religion. There will be friends and family members they child knows and loves that see their religion as a very important aspect of their life. Kids need to understand why this is so. They also need to know about proselytizers and how to fend them off — graciously if possible. It goes without saying that a child should never be just turned over to any religious organization to do with as they wish.

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Taking a child into a religious service has to be carefully thought out as part of a plan to teach about religion.

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JonelB

The fact that religion is appealing to parents and elder people(you are young again! And rich! And you can do all the things you couldn't enjoy during life!), usually brings them to get upset if their children don't 'embrace the faith'. I know my own parents are unsatisfied with their life, and follow the version of christianity where you ignore the parts you don't like, but pick and choose the parts you do–mom thinks that abortion is okay, gay people aren't evil, and has 'put up with' but 'prays all the time' for me to see the light again.
My dad, if he had the chance, would start his own cult centered around something similar to the Pearl Family's method of 'training'. All about control and "putting people in their proper place". He was talking about Obama tonight using racist words.
Ironically, they don't like churches because every church they've been to has asked them what they made, and then wanted -exactly- 10-15% of that. My parents are tightwads and hate giving money away, so we never had regular church attendance(got lucky with that one).
But they did -try- to indoctrinate me. Vacation Bible Camp, etc. Sadly, vague promises of an afterlife were completely OWNED by education and how shittily I was treated by 'christians'–who never seemed to care about me, only their relationship with jesus. Funny how when they treat people badly, they run to apologize to god, but would never apologize to the person they mistreated.
But seriously, put better education in schools, and keep extracurriculars, help build social circles that don't rely on religion! There's a reason why nerds tend to be atheist–it's because they have social groups outside of church! There's a reason why rural people tend to be religious–it's because there's nowhere else to play basketball! Collection plates around here usually feed into little clubhouses for young fetterlings to eat pizza and play dodgeball at every Wednesday. It's what my sister did for years on end, while I was more than happy to stay away from the spitball-throwing assholes that frequented such areas–and stay on my computer.
1.) education beats the crap out of religion's ass. Unfortunately my highschool just put the softball coach in charge of teaching 'evolution'–and we got the barest minimum. It wasn't until college that I got the full picture and was able to have a story of how we came to be that -wasn't- mythology.
2.) social circles–the more you build social circles that meet regularly and have nothing to do with religion, the less religious people there will be. It'd be nice for people where I live to have a choice beyond Sweet Water Baptist Church on Wednesday night. I used to be in Marching band, but unfortunately everything circulates around Football and Football always starts with prayer–if there were more things to actually do–you'd see a drop in church attendance.

Richard_Collins

As a person who has had the great good fortune to read many life histories I can say your comment rings so true and is a perfect expression of what children experience. Unfortunately, they don't dare give free expression to their honest thoughts. Thanks so much for sharing your experience and insights.

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